Release Guilt Around Not Being Productive

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Do you feel as thought you always have to be doing something or else you feel guilty and lazy?

So many of us get our value from what we do, not from who we are.

You are a spark of Spirit. You are unique and amazing and beautiful….just. the way. you. are.

You are worthy and powerful. You are competent and creative. You are enough even if you lay on the couch and watch soap operas all day.

You are enough, because you are.

 

Here is a question I was recently asked on facebook and it sparked so much in me that I decided to write about it here.

 

Q: Jenean…I’ve been raised conditioned to feel guilty when I’m not being “productive”. So how does one relieve this feeling?

 

A: Guilt (any negative feeling really) tells us our thoughts are not in alignment with what our soul knows to be true.
Our inner Divine Self knows that there is nothing that we should be doing. We came here to experience our Divine-ness in an expanded way and just by being …you are!
Us humans decided at some point that we are only valuable if we are doing, so that changed the game.

A teacher once asked me, if a man lies on a couch pondering for 80 years and then writes a one-line poem before he dies that changes the way humanity thinks, is his life any more/less valuable than the person who is out there speaking to millions everyday on TV ?

I had to really sit with that one!

 

Here are the 2 suggestions I gave her (and you!) to begin removing the guilt:

My first suggestion is to examine all your beliefs around what makes you valuable.
My second suggestion is to begin removing the have to and shoulds from your life.

 

This is a generational belief and you are here to shift that for your family line….if you choose, that belief can stop with you! How exciting!

 

What do you think about being versus doing? Share your thoughts in the comments!

 

Big love,

Jenean

 

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You Are Not Alone, You Are Enough

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Recently, I sent out a survey asking some questions about your dreams, desires and what is holding you back.

It was an overwhelming response (thank you!) and I found the results fascinating!

 

Here is what you said:

 

~ Almost half of you (45%) dream of starting a business one day

~ Nearly 60% of you want help clearing fear/self -doubt and stopping the negative mind chatter

~ 50% are feeling a lack of self-trust and belief are holding you back, while the remaining are struggling with clarity and motivation

~ 63% of you said procrastination,  comparison and perfectionism are how resistance shows up for you

~ 100% of you said you were intuitive, empath or sensitive

 

Why am I telling you this?

 

Because I want you to know you are not alone.

Because I want you to keep going.

Because I want you to be inspired to stick with your dream.

Because I want you to know you are worth it and you can do it.

Because I want you to know…in the deepest parts of you….YOU ARE ENOUGH.

Because it is easy to get stuck in your head and feel you are alone when you are in the beginning or idea stages of your business.

Because it is easy to let fear take control of your emotions and suddenly what was an inspired idea has become this deep longing of a dream you feel will never happen.

 

This is what it felt like for me anyway.

I decided I wanted to start a business, I created a name and even got excited every time I thought about how I can help people. Then fear took over me and doubt creeped in. I began thinking thoughts like, “She’s already doing it, so why bother.” or ” Who am I to do this, I don’t have the right education?” or even ” My family/friends think I am crazy and should just appreciate the job I have.”

These thoughts that felt inspired at first, began to feel like a prison. I was being held by a dream I came to believe I could never actually have… like an unrequited love, it was an opportunity that was not meant to be mine.

I stayed with this thinking for 8 years, and then I saw a path.

 

A path to actually making it happen.

I was terrified, because fear still told me I would fail, however I didn’t care. I could no longer wait to try it.

I didn’t want to die with my music inside me.

 

This path has led me here to you today to tell you ~ You are not alone. You can do this. You are enough.

 

Rainbows and hugs,

Jenean

 

P.S. If you have a dream in your heart and are ready to take the leap to seeing how it can be real. Then let’s talk.

I have 5 open spots next week and want to gift them to you to make 2014 the year you answered the calling in your soul.

Go here to find your path: https://www.vcita.com/v/jenean.zunk/online_scheduling?service_id=e12babc7

 

*Thanks to Jonathan Kos- Read for the image!

I call B.S.

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“I want to get out of debt, I just don’t know how…”

“I want to get out of debt, but I don’t make enough money…”

I  call B.S.

 

I hear these comments all the time; believe me, I’ve used them too!

You don’t get out of debt by sitting in victim mode and whining about why you can’t, because when you really want something you find a way to make it happen.

C’mon…be honest with yourself for once. You always find a way to afford what you really want.

Look at the last 10 items you purchased, go on…look. If you were to be really honest with yourself, I bet you’ll find you didn’t  NEED half of them.

You bought them in the moment to fill that void.

The void that  you have been trying not to face.

That empty space that echoes the fears of your mind, like…

“I am not enough” “They aren’t going to like me” “I’m too fat” “I can’t save money”- add your thought here: _______________

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I am about to share a revelation with you. The most important words you will hear all day. The words that, once you bring them into your heart, your spirit will breathe a deep sigh of relief and say “Thank you.”

“You are enough”

You are amazing and beautiful and powerful and smart and funny and funky and creative and…

You can achieve anything you want to and that includes financial freedom.

Aren’t you ready to drop the story and write a new chapter in your life? One where you follow your dreams and live financially free? Imagine, no more stress and worry about having enough money to live the life you want. Imagine being able to take a surprise weekend getaway and not worry about the cost.

It can happen, and the first step on that journey is getting out of debt.

Join me on Sat 7/20 at 3 pm ET for the Inspired Money: 90 min Training Call REPLAY

In this call, I share the exact formula (the unsexy, nitty-gritty details) that will have you figuring out the exact month you will be out of debt. That’s right; the exact month!

Here are the call in details:

Title: Inspired Money: 90 min Training Call
Time: Thursday, July 11th at 7:00pm Eastern
Listening method: Phone + Web Simulcast
             Phone number: (206) 402-0100
PIN Code: 315625#

To attend, visit:
http://InstantTeleseminar.com/?eventID=43542228

 

Know you are ready to commit to financial freedom and change your life forever?

Go here: http://sales.namastelivingonline.com/

 

Your dreams are waiting for you to say yes.

for the love of dreams,

Jenean